hi gerry
I have twins they are 17 years old now they are two boys they were hard work but my advice is listen to no one as you will get a routine going for your self it s hard work but worth it life went on hold for two years I would say they slept in the same cot first untill they were 6 months and then they were side by side in the bedroom they did everything together and even if one went some where the other would be waiting for him to come back as they missed each other they had a closeness or bond between them